First of all, I feel sorry for Orlando. Wish the best for you and your wife.
I've read some comments on ND's blog, only the first ones and last ones though, too many. And I also think they're quite close minded and intolerance.
Aside from that, I have a question, sorry if this is stupid but I'm curious, this is more about the bdsm, do you really have to do it that way? Can't be happy if you're doing it without hurting or humiliating?
I think every human have their own dark sides. I myself is trying to see what my orientation is, and that's why I came across this blog. But maybe not as extreme as stuffs in kink.com. Doesn't feel anything like hatred or disgust, more like amazed, wow these things really exist, but not my things. I guess I just have the mind of a bully. But I do like some, things.
So I'm wondering if you can do it in a more 'loving' ways, because when body's hurt, the pain is the signal sent to warn you, that there are something dangerous. I think putting yourself or your partner in a dangerous condition - lethal or not - is not really good. Just wondering...
Have a nice day...
Tuesday, 2 February 2010
Pulling out a comment
This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figured it was best to give it a thread of its own, so here it is: