...I don't have much time to talk, but poll time: Is it just me, or are men in the vanilla world infinitely more creepy, sexist, and ske...

(No one comments here any more. Was it something I said?) This isn't quite SM-related, but I'd rather put it here than my blog, so: ...

Belle, on the perennial TransWars : Look: the truth is, if you're that wigged out about transpeople, or other transgressions against the...

Who am I, what, and why? by resilientlight: Why? I blame radical feminism and the sexual warnings in teenage books! No, really, bear with m...

So when my sex life flags, I should do the one thing that renders me less interested in sex than in watching paint dry. Who'd have thunk...

from the NCSF: Action Alert - Religious political extremists attack The Task Force for "Leather Leadership Award" February 13, 200...

h/t Nezua: Court overturns Texas Sex Toy Ban FORT WORTH, Texas — A federal appeals court has overturned a Texas statute outlawing sex toy ...

This is ganked and reposted from an elist I'm on. I wanted to put it up here to show -- not that any of us need to hear it -- that bad s...

I'd be interested to see what you all have to say about this discussion I'm having over at BFP's about BDSM themes in music and...

Things I not longer understand #1: Kinky people judging one another for their kinks. I used to do this myself, so I look at it now and I...