I occasionally hear the sentiment that in a feminist utopia, there'd be no BDSM.
I don't believe this, and I'm hazarding a guess that y'all don't either. But it does raise an interesting question:
What would BDSM look like in a feminist utopia?
Would certain dynamics disappear, or become more prevalent, or become less prevalent? Would less people be interested in certain fantasies or fetishes? Or would everything be pretty much the same as it is now?
Tawk amongst y'selves!
(I'll give my own answer in comments later.)